Ep. 109: Is Understanding Behavior Just Excusing It?

2023-01-31

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Understanding behavior helps us actually solve the problem, leads to compassion, and actually helps behavior to change, but first we must understand why we are so afraid that understanding behaviors means we are excusing "bad" behaviors.In this episode, you’ll learn:The difference between understanding behavior and excusing behaviorWhy understanding behavior is importantWhat are our fears about understanding behaviorWhat leads to behavior changeThe importance of compassionate b...

Understanding behavior helps us actually solve the problem, leads to compassion, and actually helps behavior to change, but first we must understand why we are so afraid that understanding behaviors means we are excusing "bad" behaviors.

In this episode, you’ll learn:

The difference between understanding behavior and excusing behavior
Why understanding behavior is important
What are our fears about understanding behavior
What leads to behavior change
The importance of compassionate boundaries

Read a summary or the full transcript at: RobynGobbel.com/understandingbehavior

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