“The more people we can influence, the more people we can serve and help.” – Brian Buffini
From negotiating to collaborating, you need persuasion to get anything done in life. In this episode, Brian takes a deep dive into the art of persuasion, focusing on two powerful books to explain how you can become better skilled at influencing others so you can serve and help them. Topics discussed include why our need to be right means we often miss opportunity, why we all want to feel heard and why empathy is so important. Also outlined are the six principles of persuasion you can use to give customers a nudge in the right direction.
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YOU WILL LEARN:
Why you can't win an argument. Why people argue. Why great salespeople must be skilled at persuasion.
MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE:
“How to Win Friends & Influence People,” by Dale Carnegie
“Influence: The Psychology of Persuasion,” by Robert B. Cialdini
“Acres of Diamonds,” by Russell Conwell
ESPN “30 for 30” documentary series
Buffini & Company Heritage Profile
“The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People,” by Stephen R. Covey
Episode 222, Choosing Hope in a Racially Divided Culture with Miles McPherson
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INSPIRATIONAL QUOTES FROM THIS EPISODE:
“A man convinced against his will is of the same opinion still.” – Dale Carnegie
“If your mind isn't open, keep your mouth shut too.” – Sue Grafton
“It is better to keep your mouth closed and let people think you're a fool than open it and remove all doubt.” – Mark Twain
“Disappointment is unmet expectations. And the more significant the expectations, the more significant that disappointment.” – Brené Brown
“To be kind is more important than to be right. Many times what people need is not a brilliant mind that speaks, but a special heart that listens.” – F. Scott Fitzgerald
“There is a distinct lack of empathy in our culture. The more you practice it, the more successful you'll be, the more you'll stand out, the more persuasive you’ll be, the more impactful you'll be.” – Brian Buffini
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