How to Show Up for YOU, Your Family, & Business When Balance Feels Impossible with Loretta Soffe

2025-10-13

What if everything you’ve been taught about work-life balance is a lie? In this episode, I sit down with Loretta Soffe to talk about being the breadwinner in marriage, the radical choice her husband made to become a full-time dad in the early 2000s, and how discipline, fitness, values, and intention help you build a life you truly love. We also break down the Compatibility Code that helps couples grow through decades of change. Get ready to rethink balance, partnership, ambition, and motherhood in a whole new way. Check out our S...

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HIGHLIGHTS

00:00 Why the idea of “balance” is total BS.

05:15 How do you raise kids who want to hang out with you?

10:00 How did you flip the script on traditional parenting roles?

15:00 The judgment, stereotypes, and joy of reversing traditional roles.

20:15 Teamwork, humility, and the “no division of labor” rule in marriage.

26:30 Leadership lessons Loretta used at home.

29:00 How to help your kids build confidence.

33:15 Why can’t you give everything 100% all the time?

39:30 How Loretta landed her biggest consulting contract.

45:00 Imposter syndrome, readiness, and saying YES before you feel ready.

49:15 How do you stay on purpose even when you're being judged?