”When Is It Time to Walk Away from Your Marriage?”

2025-07-28

So many men ask me the same question: "How do I know when I've done enough?" They’ve put in the work. They’ve read the books. They’ve hit the gym, led with strength, stayed patient—and still… she avoids connection.In today’s Dear DSO, Alejandro writes in with a story that I’ve heard far too many times. A disconnected wife. Years of emotional avoidance. A man trying to fix things alone.I break it all down—how much responsibility is really on the man… and when it’s okay to say: “I’ve done all I can.”👇 And ...

So many men ask me the same question: "How do I know when I've done enough?" They’ve put in the work. They’ve read the books. They’ve hit the gym, led with strength, stayed patient—and still… she avoids connection.

In today’s Dear DSO, Alejandro writes in with a story that I’ve heard far too many times. A disconnected wife. Years of emotional avoidance. A man trying to fix things alone.

I break it all down—how much responsibility is really on the man… and when it’s okay to say: “I’ve done all I can.”

👇 And if you’re in the same boat? You’re not alone. Check out the Brotherhood at
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