EP128: Sex Parties - How to organize them, act when there and get invited
When you think of sex parties, you might picture one of those rowdy college parties with overflowing alcohol and drugs. Where people are having intoxicated sex and wakes up the next day without any memory of what happened last night.
Today's guest hosts sex parties. The parties that Kim/Cleopatra calls 'play parties' is the complete opposite of the party that was described earlier though. It is so classy, it starts with conversations over wine and cheese, posh accents are optional. I recently became a part of one of her invite-only sex party, and if there's one word to describe it, it was amazing. Or maybe epic.
I invited her to the podcast so we can talk about everything that happens in her sex parties, how she organizes them, the interaction between the participants, and how to get invited. Some of the things discussed in our conversation are:
A little backstory on our lives that led us to Vancouver and the path we chose. (04:06) People's reactions, and double-standards, when she talks about her play party experience. (10:46) How she got into the world of play parties. (15:21) The empowering and gratifying experience of play parties relating to consent. (20:41) What led her to start coordinating and hosting her own play parties. (27:11) My experience with the available matches in sex clubs and our basis for attraction. (32:30) Networking, the platforms used, and the selection process for Kim's play parties. (40:28; 47:00) The play party experience and how sensory overload impacts sexual performance. (41:21) The rules of Kim's play parties, cleaning your junk rituals, and the significance of the olfactory sense in sex. (54:35; 1:06:19) The experience of joining her play party and the general attitude of the people in the party. (1:08:25) Why she recommends sex parties instead of joining a couple for a threesome. (1:12:40) Why it's ok to see women coming even if the men are not. (1:24:14) Ensuring sexual health, preventing sexually transmitted infections and/or diseases, and even limiting transmission of hepatitis C. (1:31:13) Dealing with drama and disagreements. (1:39:15) Setting an awesome atmosphere and setting boundaries through communication. (1:46:35) The endorphin-boosting ambiance of the party. (1:54:28) What single guys must do to be able to get invited to Kim's play parties. (1:59:34)
This conversation can certainly get you curious and reel you in into the lifestyle, doesn't it? Think you have what it takes to be a part of this one of a kind sexual experience? Email email@example.com for details.
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