40. We All Start at Zero

Hi, I’m Kylee and I’m a business coach for women! I specialize in helping women make money while still balancing their families. Learn more about my courses and coaching options at kyleeanncoaching.com FIND US HERE: kyleeanncoaching.com/podcast instagam.com/kyleeanncoaching Get the show notes to your inbox: bit.ly/KMMpodcast SHOW NOTES: A few weeks ago I was looking through my DMs and realized that I’ve been getting too many messages from photographers saying “yeah, what you’re doing works for you but not for me, because you’re well-known and I’m not….yeah, I hear you saying there’s plenty work out there for photographers, but that’s just for successful people like you and what about nobody’s like me.” What I’ve been hearing in my DMs are all negative beliefs, and it breaks my heart to hear photographers play the comparison game and pull themselves down! It's a dangerous road we go down when we give into our negative beliefs. We smother our own growth, success and confidence when we start telling ourselves, “I can’t make it because nobody knows who I am” or “I’m just not as good as that person.” These are all lies that we just keep telling ourselves, and we cannot get stuck in those places! A lot of people look at my account or my business and think that it must be so easy to be where I am. But they don’t see the 10 years that it took to get where I am. Remember that we all start at zero! If you’re finding yourself thinking any of these negative beliefs, stop looking around at everyone else and thinking that it must be so easy for them. Success does not mean that things come easy for people. Everyone attracts different opportunities and the opportunities YOU are attracting are the ones that you are needing in your life right now. Instead of fixating on how we can be successful like others, we need to focus on our own journeys, our own advantages and our own strengths.