38 | Understanding Borderline Personality Disorder with Dr. Jerold Kreisman

Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD) is one of the most talked about—and misunderstood—mental health conditions. With conversations around self-diagnosis and “favorite person” dynamics all over social media, it can be difficult to separate fact from assumption.

In this episode, Scarlett sits down with Dr. Jerold Kreisman, psychiatrist and author of numerous books, to bring clarity and compassion to the topic of BPD. Together, they explore:

• What BPD really is—and what it isn’t
• How BPD differs from anxious attachment or loving intensely
• The concept of a “favorite person” and how it plays out in relationships
• Differences in how BPD shows up in men vs. women
• The impact of social media on self-diagnosis and understanding mental health
• Hopeful paths forward for healing and support

Whether you live with BPD, love someone who does, or simply want to learn from one of the world’s leading experts, this episode offers tools and perspective for navigating one of the most complex human experiences.

Dr. Jerold Kreisman's books:

I Hate You, Don't Leave Me

Sometimes I Act Crazy

Talking to a Loved One with Borderline Personality Disorder