294: How to Write Erotic Stories for Your Spouse

In this episode, I sit down with my friend Jacqlin — published author and romance reader — to talk about something I've wanted to explore for a long time: how writing intimate stories can deepen connection in marriage.

We talk about:

• Why erotic writing can feel more vulnerable than sex

• The difference between sharing your body and sharing your private thoughts

• How to overcome fear of rejection

• Practical scaffolding and ideas for writing your first spicy story

• Boundaries, motivation, and what NOT to do

• Why your "why" matters more than the spice level

Jacqlin even shares a sample story at the end of the episode (with a content warning), so you can hear how tenderness and connection can coexist with passion.

If you've ever wondered:

• Where do I even start?

• Is this appropriate in marriage?

• What if my spouse rejects it?

• Could this actually bring us closer?

This episode will give you clarity and courage.

Sex isn't just about bodies. It's about inviting your spouse into the private parts of your mind and heart.

And that can be transformative.

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