Why Doing the Work Isn’t Getting You the Men You Want

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You’ve gone to therapy, read the books, taken the courses, and done everything you thought would lead to a better dating experience. But instead of attracting high-quality men, you feel like you’re growing, but the men around you aren’t. 

That’s because doing the work doesn’t attract better men…being the work does.

In this episode, I break down why checking all the self-improvement boxes won’t change your dating results. 

You’ll learn how Good Girl Syndrome keeps you stuck in performance mode, why focusing on growth as an achievement leads to frustration, and the real shift that makes men step up and pursue you differently.

 I’ll also share real client experiences that show the difference between doing the work and embodying it—and how that embodiment naturally changes the kind of men you attract and entertain.

If you’re tired of feeling like you’re outgrowing a lot of men but still aren’t meeting the men you desire, this episode will show you exactly why—and what to do instead.

Work with me to attract emotionally mature, intelligent, and available men (without the stress of wondering if they even exist). 

Book a sales call to learn more about private 1:1 coaching with me.  Book a sales call HERE to speak with me. 

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Learn how to use your words to attract better men & create better dating experiences - The Conversations that Inspire Commitment Live Virtual Workshop

Read my online essay on why the way we date is broken- Modern Dating is Hard 

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