Sometimes, no matter how turned on we get with a partner, we simply won’t cum. It’s frustrating as hell for us guys, and it can be insulting for our partners. “Am I not hot enough, or turning you on enough?” are some thoughts that might be rolling around in his/her head.
The truth is, it shouldn’t be insulting. Because when we can’t orgasm, it’s rarely our partner. 95% of the time, it’s our shit that’s preventing us from either knowing our own arousal or communicating our needs or dealing with our sexual shame. This goes for both women and men.
Today's episode is a conversation between me and a past client and friend who's dealt with not being able to ejaculate during sex. I offer him a few solutions. Some may resonate well with you, and others may not. It's a subjective thing, orgasm. If you want some personalized, more in depth help, you can reach me at ryan@modernsextalks.com for a free 20min consult.
EP045: Forgiving a Murderer
EP044: Who's Really Responsible for the Orgasm Gap?
EP043: Condom Slippage
EP042: The Right Attitude For Great Sex
EP041: Anger and your Dating Life
EP040: Just the Tip Tuesday - Rope Play
EP039: Why Vulnerability is Sexy
EP037: Just the Tip Tuesday - Rude Awakening
EP036: The 5 Elements of Intimacy
EP035: Defeating Erectile Dysfunction
EP034: Sometimes....Sex Sucks
EP033: Multiple Orgasms for Men
EP032: Threesomes
EP031: Just the Tip Tuesday - Emotional Trust
EP030: Keys to Incredible Touch
EP029: Premature Ejaculation Part 4 of 4
EP028: Just the Tip Tuesday - Orgasmic Meditation
EP027: How Abstinence Can Improve Self-Esteem
EP026: Premature Ejaculation Part 3/4 - Anger
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