Sometimes, no matter how turned on we get with a partner, we simply won’t cum. It’s frustrating as hell for us guys, and it can be insulting for our partners. “Am I not hot enough, or turning you on enough?” are some thoughts that might be rolling around in his/her head.
The truth is, it shouldn’t be insulting. Because when we can’t orgasm, it’s rarely our partner. 95% of the time, it’s our shit that’s preventing us from either knowing our own arousal or communicating our needs or dealing with our sexual shame. This goes for both women and men.
Today's episode is a conversation between me and a past client and friend who's dealt with not being able to ejaculate during sex. I offer him a few solutions. Some may resonate well with you, and others may not. It's a subjective thing, orgasm. If you want some personalized, more in depth help, you can reach me at ryan@modernsextalks.com for a free 20min consult.
EP025: Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD)
EP024: Premature Ejaculation Part 2/4 - Shame
EP023: Humpday Share - Premature Ejaculation Part 1/4
EP022: Kinks and Fetishes - 101
EP021: Polyamory Done Right
EP020: Trust the Darkness
EP019: Co-c-kfidence
EP018: Myths of Male Emotion
EP017: How to have a Swinger Relationship
EP016: Your "Rude Awakening" to Emotional Intimacy
EP015: Sexual Art Photography is a Way to Spice Up Your Sex Life
EP014: Rope Bondage
EP013: Be High Status and Get More Dates
EP012: Scary Truths of Mate Selection
EP011: The #1 KEY to Emotional Trust
EP010: 5 Sexy Steps to Keep the Passion Alive
EP009: Beating Sex Addiction
EP008: Improving Your Orgasm through Tantra
EP007: Erotic Massage
EP006 - How Men Can Find the Right Partner
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