Don’t Marry Someone You’ve Never Seen Under Pressure

You’re not just marrying someone at their strongest—you’re marrying their weaknesses too.If you’ve ever wondered, “How do I know if they can handle hard times?” this episode is for you.We’re showing Christian singles and dating couples how to look beyond chemistry, comfort, and church talk to see if the person you’re dating can stay faithful, steady, and emotionally safe when life gets heavy.You’ll learn how to:- Recognize emotional maturity in dating (self-awareness, accountability, resilience)- Spot red flags under pressure—blame-shifting, defensiveness, or escaping into sin- Ask questions that reveal how they handle weakness, stress, and correction- Discern whether to stay, pause, or release the relationship- Invite God and community into your decision-makingBecause being a Christian doesn’t automatically mean someone is ready for godly love.You need someone who’s not just fun when things are easy—but faithful when things get hard.Scriptures referenced: Proverbs 17:17, Ecclesiastes 4:9-12, James 5:16, Psalm 34:8CHAPTERS00:00 Marrying strengths and weaknesses00:56 Why this matters beyond “best friend”03:05 When friendship cracks under pressure04:39 Evaluating maturity—not just “they’re Christian”06:28 Pressure exposes habits & boundaries09:39 Signs of maturity: triggers, transparency, trust19:05 Red flags: escape, victim mindset, refuses correction27:01 How to discern with God & community28:10 Boundaries in practice + past patterns30:04 Consequences vs. emotional safetyIf you’re searching for Christian dating advice, godly relationship red flags, emotional maturity in dating, how to choose a godly spouse, or Christian boundaries in relationships, this episode gives you a biblical, practical lens to evaluate character before marriage—so you can build love that lasts.