Q & A: My Spouse Won’t Post Me on Social Media

2025-04-04

Have you ever been concerned about your spouse's social media activities . . . or in our listener's case, lack of social media activities? I'm addressing a listener who feels unsettled that her husband never posts about her on social media and even occasionally unfollows her, while sharing other aspects of his life online. Episode Highlights: Marriage Advice: I emphasize the importance of communication. Ask, don't assume your partner's intentions. Use "I statements" to express your feelings without...

Have you ever been concerned about your spouse's social media activities . . . or in our listener's case, lack of social media activities? I'm addressing a listener who feels unsettled that her husband never posts about her on social media and even occasionally unfollows her, while sharing other aspects of his life online.

Episode Highlights:

Marriage Advice: I emphasize the importance of communication. Ask, don't assume your partner's intentions.
Use "I statements" to express your feelings without being accusatory.
Key Strategies:
- Understand that everyone expresses affection differently, especially on public platforms like social media.
- The significance of clear communication around personal expectations in a relationship is critical.
- Directly address concerns with your spouse to gain clarity rather than making assumptions.