#86 Who Are the Ancestors Tho?

We discuss the politics of Black men’s hair, look for safe spaces for Black sexuality, explore casual Black on Black colorism, and are you an asshole if you hate Kwanzaa? This week’s hot list: New Year rituals & traditions, sisterhood in the restroom, cocaine or nah, Haitian Independence Day, is Kwanzaa problematic?, navigating mental health during the holidays, what happens when you buck shots?, the Museum of Sex, why is sex so white everywhere all the time, porn and slavery, black kink, group sex, adventure dating, Denzel & Viola in Fences, the Black family under white supremacy, everybody hates J., Michael Slager is a murderer, Black men and their hair choices, Rasta vs. impostah. Drink up! Tweet us while you listen! #teawithqj @teawithqj EVENTS Queen is hosting her first "Vision Board and Goal Setting Meet Up!" for Ms.Vixen magazine! Join us on January 15th at Von in NYC. Click the link for more info and to RSVP: www.eventbrite.com/e/vision-board-…ets-30625202806 WEBSITE www.TeaWithQueenAndJ.com SOCIAL MEDIA Twitter & Instagram: @TeawithQJ Facebook: www.facebook.com/TeawithQueenandJ Tumblr: teawithqueenandj.tumblr.com EMAIL teawithqueenandj@gmail.com DONATE www.paypal.me/teawithqj NOTES & EXTRA TEA This week’s closing clip features Viola Davis in August Wilsons “Fences” on broadway: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qt5LLLU_qew Libations to Ohene Cornelius for our show intro, check out his latest album Flight Risk available everywhere online now. You can find Ohene on instagram and twitter @ohenecornelius and online at www.ohenecornelius.com Libations to T.Flint for our News That's Not News intro! Find him at www.TFlintVoices.com