#316: Grace and Discipline: Can You Really Do Both?

Can you parent with grace and discipline at the same time?

Absolutely. In this episode, Don and Suzanne Manning explain how to combine God’s favor (grace) with training to standards (discipline) to build self-control, connection, and freedom in your home. You’ll learn the difference between firm vs. harsh, how to respond not react, and a simple “same-side of the line” visual that moves you from power struggles to partnership. The conversation includes empathy that doesn’t excuse behavior, practical scripts for correction, and a preview of emotional regulation tools for “meltdown moments.” Anchored in Hebrews 12:6 and Galatians 5:1, this episode equips you to set clear boundaries and keep a gentle tone—so your kids actually learn.

Key takeaways:

• Grace (favor) + discipline (training) lead to true freedom and self-control.
• Be firm, not harsh—respectful tone makes correction stick.
• Use “Help me understand…” to pair empathy with consequences.
• Stand shoulder-to-shoulder with your child and point them to God’s standard.
• Prioritize long-term connection over short-term compliance.
• Start practicing emotional regulation during meltdowns (for you and your child).

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