220. From Marginalized to Mainstream: How to Reclaim Confidence for Your Blended Family

Have you ever experienced an awkward "stepfamily moment" in public?  Like when someone notices that you and your child have different last names or makes assumptions about your family dynamics?  We've experienced plenty of those moments in our blended family journey, and it doesn't feel very good. 

In today’s conversation, we address the experience of feeling “marginalized” or "less than".  And we'll share what we've done to stand in our true identity and invite others into genuine connection, rather than avoiding the awkwardness.

It's liberating to simply normalize the reality that blended families are everywhere, and we embrace three mindset shifts that make a real difference: 

• Be confident and secure about how your family came together 
• Be authentic by offering a simple, positive message that honors your story 
• Avoid comparison traps 

Our hope is that you’ll feel seen, supported, and empowered to carry your story with courage and to know that you aren't alone.

You’ll Discover

• What feeling “marginalized” looks like in everyday moments, and why blended families are part of the cultural mainstream
• A simple, unapologetic way to respond to awkward situations without shaming yourself or your kids
• Four tools to escape comparison traps and stay confident and secure

Resources from this Episode:

• CLICK HERE to check out the Blending Together Community
• Episode 11. 3 Hidden Strengths for Imperfect Blended Families
• Episode 156. The 3 Super Strengths of a Blended Family Marriage 
• Episode 114. Beware of Common Comparison Traps that Create Disconnection and Negativity 
• Episode 160. A 4-Part Framework for Achievable Expectations and How to Live Them Out
• Episode 14. 3 Helpful Steps to Overcome Your "Perfectionistic" Ideals and Disappointments 
• Episode 180. Break Free From Guilt and Blend with Authenticity and Security 

Ready for some extra support?

We all need some extra support along the blending journey — we're here to help.  You can connect with us for a free coaching call to see how we might help you experience more clarity, confidence and connection in your home.  Schedule your free call here:  https://calendly.com/mikeandkimcoaching/freesession

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