Two Therapists in Bed: Can You Really Make a Marriage Bulletproof?

In this episode, John and Vanessa dive into one of their most personal conversations yet: Can you make a marriage bulletproof?

What starts with a casual coffee shop chat about Costa Rica being a place where marriages “come to die” spirals into a raw, honest discussion about trust, romance, fear, and what truly keeps a relationship alive.

They debate:

• Why moving to “paradise” can magnify relationship cracks.
• The difference between trusting the container of marriage vs. trusting the love itself.
• Realist vs. romantic mindsets in marriage and how they collide.
• Vulnerability, attachment styles, and what it means to truly choose someone.

If you’ve ever wondered whether your relationship could survive the hardest tests or if bulletproof love even exists - this episode is for you.

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