The Lie of the Inner Critic: How Your Childhood Blame Strategy Became Your Adult Prison

Explores the origins of the inner critic, that harsh internal voice which convinces people they are failures or "losers" despite evidence of success. It explains that this critical voice often develops in childhood as a way to make sense of painful or confusing experiences, such as neglect or abandonment by a parent.
For a child, believing “I am bad” can feel safer than accepting the frightening possibility that the world is unfair or that a caregiver is incapable of love. This coping mechanism preserves a sense of order but leaves deep scars.
As adults, people can begin to heal by recognizing the inner critic as a relic of childhood survival, not an objective truth. Progress comes from reframing the narrative: something bad happened to them—it does not mean they are inherently bad.


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