Parenting with the 100% Rule EP 205

Today's podcast is about parenting. Patty is sharing her philosophy specifically as it relates to the 100% rule. As a mom, knowing when she's done her 100% and surrendering the rest is something she continues to work on.  

If you are a mom (or dad) you already understand that you can't parent all kids the same way. Different kids need different guidance and support and that's true for Patty too.  

Let children see for themselves what is possible. It's important that as a parent you accept your child as they are. This has opened up space with both kids, by creating awareness of what's possible and allowing them to share how Patty can best support them.  

"You know that you're doing more than your 100% when you feel like you are pushing a boulder up a hill."  

Most of the time when we get to the 100% space and it's time to let go, we feel fear. The illusion of control is what makes us feel strong, so letting go and bring up all kinds of doubts.  

Remember, the Divine loves your kids and has their back. They have their own helpers in life just like we do. When it's time to surrender (after doing your 100%) remember that others can and will step in to help.  

Hear how to fully let go, understanding it's for your highest good. This is the part that trips us up the most.  

When we see our child hurting because they've made a bad decision or are struggling to choose differently, it brings pain to us as parents. That's a good time to look at the pain to see if it's about more than what is happening with your child.  

When you heal something in yourself, it helps everyone in your family. Everything that happens can be something that leads to helping your kids and helping yourself.  

 

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