Combating Perfectionism in Healthcare with Dr. Megan Melo

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In this episode, Dr. Megan Mello, a family medicine and obesity medicine specialist, shares her insights on overcoming physician overwhelm. She discusses her journey in medicine, the importance of life coaching, and her approaches to dealing with perfectionism and people-pleasing tendencies in healthcare professionals. Dr. Mello emphasizes the need for physicians to recognize and address the root causes of their stress and overwhelm to maintain both personal wellness and professional effectiveness.

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[00:02:00] Discussion on the origins of ending physician overwhelm

[00:03:00] Insights into the intersection of burnout, perfectionism, and lack of boundaries

[00:04:00] Bradley's personal reflections on overwhelm and balancing responsibilities

[00:05:00] Dr. Mello's approach to managing her own overwhelm and recognizing the need to dial down

[00:06:00] The impact of physician overwhelm on personal life and relationships

[00:07:00] Importance of creating white space and self-care in a physician's schedule

[00:08:00] The psychology behind internalized pressures and the need for self-awareness

[00:09:00] Addressing the internal voices and expectations from medical training

[00:10:00] Transitioning from training to independent practice and the challenges therein

[00:11:00] Bradley and Dr. Mello discuss the need to balance patient care with personal boundaries

[00:12:00] Exploring the dynamics of people-pleasing and perfectionism in healthcare

[00:13:00] Strategies for managing the stress cycle and emotional regulation

[00:14:00] The distinction between healthy striving and toxic perfectionism

[00:15:00] Challenges of maintaining a balance between patient care, team dynamics, and personal well-being

[00:16:00] Bradley and Dr. Mello explore the concept of the stress cycle

[00:17:00] Practical tips for managing stress and avoiding burnout in medical practice

[00:18:00] The reality of medical practice and the pressures of patient satisfaction

[00:19:00] Navigating the complexities of medical prescriptions and patient expectations

[00:20:00] The implications of people-pleasing and perfectionism in medical decisions

[00:21:00] How societal and professional expectations impact physician behavior

[00:22:00] Understanding the difference between striving for quality care and perfectionism

[00:23:00] The limitations of physician capacity and the need for high-functioning medical teams

[00:24:00] Discussion on the ideal and practical aspects of medical care

[00:25:00] Bradley and Dr. Mello reflect on the cycle of overwhelm and stress management

[00:26:00] Addressing the importance of completing the stress cycle

[00:27:00] Practical examples of stress-relieving activities and their significance

[00:28:00] The role of physiological responses in managing stress

[00:29:00] Recommendations for self-care and stress management techniques

[00:30:00] Closing discussion and where to find Dr. Mello online

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Dr. Megan Mello is a board-certified physician in family medicine and obesity medicine, practicing at Finney Primary Care and Wellness in Seattle. Alongside her medical career, she is a certified life coach and a certified Daring Way facilitator, with a focus on the work of Brené Brown. She is also a Balint instructor, based on the teachings of psychoanalyst Michael Balint. Dr. Mello is passionate about helping fellow physicians navigate the complexities of their profession without succumbing to overwhelm and burnout. She is the host of the "Ending Physician Overwhelm" podcast, where she shares her expertise in managing perfectionism, people-pleasing, and setting healthy boundaries.

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