S3 Ep 16 - Adoption Paradox - let me explain the blood relationship

S3 Ep 17 - Adoption- what is it and how to relate with those people who are lacking blood relatives. I explain. Blood bond is an important human thing to experience, without it we feel untethered. Blood familues have this by default, children that are not blood relatives sense the air gap, the seperation the unbelonging. They expect to be left behibd abd they can be. Relating to them requires understanding, finess abd commitment. I explain this if your interested. Subsection Show Notes: * ** (00:01:04) Personal Connection to Adoption:** I share my personal connection to adoption, stemming from having family members who have adopted many children. This has given me a unique window into the diverse experiences and challenges that can accompany adoption, both positive and negative. * (00:13:1) My Adoption Story: I recount my own experience of being adopted, which began with my parents not being married and my mother's decision to seek support from family. This led to my unique experience of being raised by my mother with the help of various aunts and uncles. * (00:09:31) The Impact of Childhood Trauma: I discuss the negative impact of vaccinations I received as a child, which led to serious health issues and developmental setbacks. I went from being a bright and mature child to experiencing speech difficulties and developmental regression, highlighting the challenges and trauma I faced early in life * (00:39:23) The Complexity of Family Dynamics: The dynamics within a family can be intricate, especially when adoption and step-relationships are involved. Truth and clarity are essential to navigate these complexities and ensure healthy interactions. Misrepresentations or unspoken truths can lead to feelings of guilt and discomfort, particularly for stepchildren. * (00:57:59) The Blood Bond: The bond between a blood mother and child is uniquely close, forged through the physical connection of pregnancy and birth. This closeness creates a deep-seated acceptance and understanding that can differ from other family relationships. * (01:17:41) The Importance of Truth and Reliability: In relationships with adopted children, truthfulness and reliability are paramount. Keeping your word and honoring commitments builds trust and strengthens bonds, filling a void that may exist due to their circumstances. * (01:24:59) The Drifting Phenomenon: Adopted children often experience a sense of "drifting," lacking the inherent security of blood ties. Establishing genuine connections based on trust and shared experiences can provide a crucial anchor for them. * (01:30:38) The Paradox of Blood: The concept of "blood" can be a paradox. Biological siblings share a unique connection, yet family dynamics can still be complex. In my own experience, meeting my half-brother highlighted the immediate and profound bond that can exist between blood relatives. * (01:37:27) Building Lasting Relationships: Building strong relationships, especially with those who have experienced adoption, requires a genuine desire for connection and a willingness to put in the effort. These relationships can be incredibly rewarding and long-lasting when built on mutual respect and understanding. #adoption #adopted #adoptedfamily #family #bloodfather #bloodmother #adoptedmother #adoptedfather #stepmother #stepfather #stepson #stepdaughter #son #daughter #child #children #love #christ #sober #empathy #acceptance #paradox #government #governance #feel #truth #warfare #sober #christian #gentleman #podcast #usa #soldier #freedom #liberty #special #military #operation #learn #education #stoicism #health #unhealthy #healthy #lawful #legal #logic #trivium #lawandorder #solutions #memory #gangs #gang #combat #victim #predictive #programming #deception #america