How to Fight Fair

Part 1 from the new series "When Love Gets Tough."

Do you and your spouse struggle with conflict? Do your arguments leave you feeling more distant instead of closer? In today’s episode, we’re diving into one of the most important marriage skills—fighting fair. Conflict is inevitable, but how you handle it determines whether it strengthens or weakens your relationship.We’ll cover:- The 4 toxic fight patterns that destroy marriages (from Dr. John Gottman’s research)- 5 biblical principles for handling conflict with love, wisdom, and patience- Practical steps to resolve arguments without resentment- How to repair damage after a disagreement and grow closer as a couple- Scripture-based wisdom on communication, forgiveness, and conflictKey Scriptures:James 1:19 | Ephesians 4:26 | Proverbs 15:1 | Colossians 3:13Takeaway: Fighting isn’t the problem—it’s how you fight that makes or breaks your marriage. Let’s learn how to argue in a way that builds trust, connection, and love.00:00 Introduction: Fighting in Marriage00:16 The Inevitability of Conflict00:22 Internal Dialogues and Their Impact00:45 Predictors of Divorce01:34 Series Introduction: When Love Gets Tough01:55 Communication Struggles in Marriage02:24 How to Fight Fair03:09 Weekend Recap and Personal Stories04:57 Healthy Conflict Resolution10:00 Four Destructive Fight Patterns18:41 Five Rules for Healthy Conflict23:57 Final Thoughts and Encouragement30:48 Upcoming Episodes and New PodcastSupport this ministry by donating at www.empoweredcultureministries.orgFollow us on Social Media: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/moremostforever/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/moremostforever/TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@moremostforever