Ep 30 | Dear Roses: Two Boyfriends, One Lie, and Zero Sleep

2026-01-09

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This week on Relatable, we’re opening the inbox for a full Dear Roses advice episode — and things get messy fast.From accidentally lying about a homemade dinner (thanks to a very confident spouse), to canceling plans with a fake injury and then immediately getting caught walking around in public, we’re tackling the kind of situations that live rent-free in your brain at 2 a.m.We also get into the bigger stuff: how to bring things up without your partner getting defensive, what to do when your life looks great...

This week on Relatable, we’re opening the inbox for a full Dear Roses advice episode — and things get messy fast.

From accidentally lying about a homemade dinner (thanks to a very confident spouse), to canceling plans with a fake injury and then immediately getting caught walking around in public, we’re tackling the kind of situations that live rent-free in your brain at 2 a.m.

We also get into the bigger stuff: how to bring things up without your partner getting defensive, what to do when your life looks great on paper but you’re exhausted all the time, and how to know when it’s time to move on from a job that’s “fine” but no longer fits.

Plus, we talk modern dating guilt, airplane etiquette rage, and newborn sleep (or lack thereof). As always, we’re not experts — just two people with opinions, stories, and a lot of empathy.

If you’ve ever thought “Is this a big deal or am I just overthinking?” — this episode is for you.

💌 Dear Roses Questions We Answered:

I hosted a dinner party, ordered everything in, and my husband told everyone I cooked it. Do I correct the lie… or let it die?
My partner gets defensive anytime I bring something up. How do I communicate without it turning into a fight?
I canceled plans claiming I couldn’t walk… then got caught walking. Am I the asshole?
My life looks great, but I’m exhausted and resent how “on” I always feel. Is this burnout or just adulthood?
I’ve outgrown my job but don’t know what’s next. How do you leave something stable without a plan?
I’m dating two people (everyone knows), but I still feel guilty. Is that normal?
Someone let their kid listen to music without headphones on a plane. What is the correct response (legally and emotionally)?
Newborn sleep struggles: what we’re doing, what’s working, and what we’re still figuring out.

If you’ve ever lied a little, canceled plans dramatically, or wondered if everyone else has life more figured out than you — you’re not alone. Welcome to Dear Roses.

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