The Messy Middle of Foster Care_ Finding Your Calm

APPLY for the Fearless Fostering Group: https://forms.gle/HR8pem1G6Wx4dAhbALearn more about Fearless Fostering here: https://fearlessfostering.selfcarebestie.com/fearless-fosteringFoster care is never linear. If you’re reading this, you probably already know that. You know the wild swings from hope to heartbreak, the late-night worries, the unspoken fears. You know how it can feel like everything is happening at once — or not at all.And in the thick of all of that? There’s the messy middle.It’s the part that doesn’t get as much attention:✨ When the honeymoon phase of a new placement fades and the real work begins.✨ When reunification plans shift and change, leaving everyone reeling.✨ When your child’s trauma shows up in ways you didn’t see coming.✨ When you’re doing everything you can — and it still doesn’t feel like enough.This “messy middle” is where most of foster care actually happens. And it’s also where so many foster mamas feel stuck.Today, I want to share why this season feels so hard, and some gentle, real-life ways to find your calm — even when it feels like the chaos will never end.