#520 What He’s Really Thinking in the First 3 Dates: Flirting, Communication & Navigating the Early Days of Dating with Dating Strategist Ben Hart

If you’ve ever felt like dating is one giant mystery while every other area of your life has a strategy—this episode is your game-changer. I’m joined by dating strategist Ben Hart, and we’re breaking down how to stop sitting on the sidelines and start approaching your love life with the same intention, confidence, and momentum you bring to your career. From how to stop overthinking early dating stages to setting standards without pushing love away, this conversation will help you flip the script on dating and attract the kind of relationship you actually want. 

In This Episode You Will Learn

• Dating requires intention, just like any other life goals.

• The small confidence-building steps that matter more than grand gestures.

• Why creating fictional narratives is killing your relationships.

• Practical tips for flirting and navigating the early stages of a new relationship.

• Stop treating dating as a transaction, enjoy the process and yourself.

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