EP#182: The Best Sex of My Life: Updates on Love, Polyamory & Pleasure

In this juicy solo episode, Jen returns with personal updates and powerful reflections on dating, relationships, and the evolution of her sex life. She opens up about her journey through open relationships, meaningful connections with partners like Jess and Scott, and how her sex life has reached new levels of fulfillment. From the role of communication and lubrication to overcoming sexual inhibitions and learning to be fully present during intimacy, Jen invites listeners—especially women—to prioritize their pleasure and explore what amazing sex looks like in midlife. Plus, a sneak peek at what’s coming up on the pod!

Life Updates and Podcast Hiatus (00:01:22)

Jen shares personal life changes, including selling her home and the impact on podcast production.

Maturation in Open Relationships (00:02:36)

Discussion on evolving experiences in long-term open relationships and the need for fresh content.

Upcoming Guests and Topics (00:03:59)

Jen mentions future episodes featuring Jess and Scott, teasing discussions on dating dynamics.

Dating Experiences with Jess (00:05:18)

Jen reflects on her journey with Jess, their initial connection, and their evolving relationship.

Learning from Recent Dates (00:06:31)

Insights on choosing aligned partners and the importance of attraction in ethical non-monogamy.

Navigating Dating Apps (00:07:49)

Jen discusses experiences with dating apps, including ghosting and societal perceptions of relationships.

Updates on Polyamorous Life (00:09:32)

Jen shares updates on her relationships with Scott and Jess, emphasizing the fun of polyamory.

Improved Sexual Experiences (00:10:39)

Jen reflects on her evolving sexual life and the importance of regular sexual activity.

Communication with Partners (00:11:47)

Discussion on the significance of communication about sexual needs and experiences with Scott.

Use of Lubrication (00:13:04)

Jen shares her experiences with lubrication and its importance for enjoyable sexual experiences.

Addressing Sexual Inhibitions (00:14:10)

Exploration of overcoming worries about appearance and sounds during sexual intimacy.

Being Present During Sex (00:18:58)

Jen emphasizes the importance of being present in sexual experiences and enjoying the moment.

Challenge to Listeners (00:20:29)

Jen encourages listeners, especially women, to focus on their pleasure during sex.

Conclusion and Call to Action (00:21:46)

Jen wraps up the episode, inviting listeners to connect with her for coaching and further discussions.