"Why can't I be fulfilled by what I SHOULD be able to?"
-Higher-drive men, Higher-drive women
"Why can't I get aroused by what I SHOULD be able to?"
-Lower-drive women, ED men
I want to invite you to consider what brings you pleasure.
I want you to consider what causes you to ENJOY life.
At Delight Your Marriage we focus a lot of intimacy. (And this episode does too).
God has designed sex to be a way to receive pleasure.
But is it God's only way for you to receive pleasure in this amazing world?
Did Jesus receive pleasure in this world? Even without sex?
For higher drive husbands/wives (or partners in sexless marriages): You are a man who doesn't receive the pleasure from sex that you crave. Jesus was tempted in every way that men are, and yet never sinned.
For lower-drive wives/porn-induced ED men: When you go on a journey of resensitizing your pleasure to everything this amazing world has to offer, you also resensitize yourself to the amazing gift of intimacy God gives you in marriage.
Gaining pleasure in many more things in this life is incredibly important for you to fill God's call in world.
Too many leaders/pastors/preachers have secret (and undermining) sins becasue they have no pressure release from the HARD work of ministry.
It's hard.
Jesus knows.
But he had MANY ways of receiving pleasure that had nothing to do with sex (sinful outside-of-marriage or even the holy inside-of-marriage of course).
I invite you to listen with a curious heart of how God might want to invite you to resensitize yourself to pleasure in the world (in and out of marital intimacy) so that you can do the will of the Father as Jesus did.
Blessings,
Belah
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345-So What Exactly Is a Clarity Call?
344-How to Make Orgasm Better for Her (Re-Release)
343-When the Past Still Plagues Your Marriage
342-If You Only Knew His Love
341-"I Didn't Realize How Much I Needed to Change". Meredith's Transformation Story
340-What to Do With Your Jealousy
339-Irritable & Hurt to Flirty & Free. Emily's Transformation Story
338-"Pretty Much Done with Life" and Now True Intimacy. Len's Transformation Story
337-Three Ways to Dismantle the Marital Atomic Bomb During the Countdown
336-His Aggression Impulse (& Wrong Sex)
335-Don't Undermine Her (Sexual) Progress
334-Rapid Fire Transformation Stories - Part 3
333-Roommates for 20 yrs... "I Truly Cannot Believe Where We Are". Bill's Transformation Story
332-Tunnel With No Light & Now Joy Filled -- Steve's Transformation Story
331-Why Duty Sex Hurts Him (& Her!)
330-DYM Team Take Over!
329-"I Changed & She Drew Towards Intimacy" - Minister Matt's Transformation Story
328-Years of Confusion Around Sex and Now Finally Clear…Pastor Luke’s Transformation Story
327-"We Fell in Love Again!" - Pastor Bennie's Transformation Story
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