Julie Krafchik & Yue Xu - How to Be Dateable

2025-05-29

In this episode of Let’s Talk Love, Robin is joined by Julie Krafchick and Yue Xu, co-hosts of the Dateable podcast and authors of the new book How to Be Dateable. With humor, honesty, and hard-earned wisdom from their own dating journeys—and those of thousands of others—they explore what it really means to date authentically in today’s world—and why it matters.They unpack the mindsets that hold people back, the shift from performance to presence, and how clarity, curiosity, and self-awar...

In this episode of Let’s Talk Love, Robin is joined by Julie Krafchick and Yue Xu, co-hosts of the Dateable podcast and authors of the new book How to Be Dateable. With humor, honesty, and hard-earned wisdom from their own dating journeys—and those of thousands of others—they explore what it really means to date authentically in today’s world—and why it matters.

They unpack the mindsets that hold people back, the shift from performance to presence, and how clarity, curiosity, and self-awareness can transform your dating life. They also share why rejection isn’t failure—it’s often a powerful redirection.

If you’ve ever felt overwhelmed, disillusioned, or just plain exhausted by modern dating, this conversation will leave you feeling empowered, seen, and ready to date on your own terms—with confidence and clarity. Julie and Yue want daters to take control of their love lives and share real wisdom and tools for how to do this.

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Links:

Book (and Dating Archetype Quiz) - http://howtobedateable.com/

Programs - https://www.dateablepodcast.com/programs

Website - https://www.dateablepodcast.com/

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