149: The Enneagram and Grief: Here’s how to show up for (yourself) and everyone that’s grieving in your life

I’m fresh off a celebration of life for a very dear friend of mine for 20 years.⁣
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I felt compelled while it was still fresh on my heart to share.⁣
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I’ve learned a lot about myself this week.⁣
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Real vulnerability is showing up when you don’t know what it’s going to look like. And as I record this, I have zero notes in front of me.⁣
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In death, in grief, I’ve learned a lot about how I show up for myself and others.⁣
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This episode is for those of you who are intrigued by the Enneagram and want to know what it can really do for you.⁣
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I can’t imagine how I might have shown up had I not used the Enneagram in these last two weeks.⁣
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The Enneagram helped me with self-awareness and awareness of others. Therefore, I thought I could share this life lesson with you, my dear listeners.⁣
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When we love, lead, and care about others, we need to show up for other people the way they need us to show up—especially when they’re grieving.⁣
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Real vulnerability is showing up when you don’t know what it’s going to look like. ⁣
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This is way more than about the Enneagram is how we use it to spread love.⁣
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It is to your advantage to learn what we can, using the wisdom of the Enneagram that we can grieve in ways that are life giving. ⁣
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When I’m grieving, especially in the most healthy way that I am right now, there’s some things that I don’t like learning about myself. ⁣
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If you don’t step into your own awareness in the most healthy version of yourself, then it’s possible to carry on grieving for the rest of your life. ⁣
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Grieving does heal you and grows you if you allow it to. ⁣
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You can’t fix grief, you just have to go through it.⁣
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Type 3’s move into their unhealthier 9 when they stress and grieve. ⁣
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The 5’s in grief and loss want to have clarity before making decisions and they want to avoid the excess emotions.⁣
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A 7 moves into an unhealthy 1 under extreme stress.⁣