I am so honored to have today’s guest on the podcast because she has such an inspirational story to share. Author of The Gift of the Unexpected: Discovering Who You Were Meant to Be When Life Goes Off Plan, Jillian Benfield joins me today to share her heartfelt story, which I knew was special the moment that I met her. I instantly connected to her story especially because we share a unique connection – we are both mothers to sons with Down Syndrome.I hope that you will listen in as Jillian and I dive into the depths of her exp...
I am so honored to have today’s guest on the podcast because she has such an inspirational story to share. Author of The Gift of the Unexpected: Discovering Who You Were Meant to Be When Life Goes Off Plan, Jillian Benfield joins me today to share her heartfelt story, which I knew was special the moment that I met her. I instantly connected to her story especially because we share a unique connection – we are both mothers to sons with Down Syndrome.
I hope that you will listen in as Jillian and I dive into the depths of her experience, beginning with the earth-shattering phone call that changed her life's trajectory. Jillian recounts the initial shock, the fear, and the grief she felt upon learning about her son's diagnosis. What follows is a candid conversation about the unlearning and learning process she underwent, navigating the unexpected, and the beautiful, inspirational transformation that emerged.
Jillian also shares powerful insights about worthiness and the societal pressures that define what it means to be successful. We explore the misconceptions surrounding Down Syndrome and how her son, Anderson, reshaped her perspective. Jillian's advocacy for inclusive education shines through as she discusses the importance of embracing differences in both schools and churches, and together, we reflect on the beauty of embracing the unexpected, finding hope in the midst of despair, and discovering the gifts that emerge from life's unexpected turns.
In This Episode
[0:35] - I have Jillian Benfield, author of The Gift of the Unexpected, on the show today!
[3:09] - Jillian shares how a surprising pregnancy in Alamogordo disrupted plans.
[5:47] - Jillian reveals how in the face of a Down syndrome diagnosis, she reexamined life's meaning.
[8:52] - Negative Down Syndrome diagnosis experiences are sadly common, calling for advocacy efforts.
[10:40] - Jillian reflects on how society links worth to success, but unexpected events can challenge this perception.
[12:05] - I share how I embrace vulnerability and graciously accept help in my journey.
[13:46] - Learn how the unexpected deeply connected Jillian to a vulnerable, suffering Jesus.
[15:52] - Unexpected challenges brought healing and transformative growth beyond imagination for Jillian.
[17:23] - Jillian and I discuss how acceptance transforms perceptions; disabilities don't define worth.
[20:29] - Jillain enthuses over Anderson thriving in inclusive school, embracing happiness and sibling love.
[21:59] - Jillian shares how her other children have grown with empathy, learning from their brother's unique journey.
[24:09] - Inclusive education is vital for fully embracing people with disabilities.
[26:45] - Jillian emphasizes church inclusion, highlighting mutual benefits for all members.
[28:31] - Jillian reflects on the white sands behind her house in New Mexico, emphasizing that new life can emerge from unexpected challenges.
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