Setting Boundaries with Your Partner

You are the queen of your home. Your energy is the main energy your home will carry and when you are constantly living in the energy of 'I don't matter' because you're worried about taking care of everyone else, I've got something for you.

I'll admit, it has taken me many years of marriage to get to the point that I'm at with my hubs + I am so happy we were willing to do the work to get here.

There's nothing that fires me up more than when a husband tells his wife no and she just says, 'Ok' like that's the end of it.

I spend too many years doing this and here's where it leads.

RESENTMENT. In a big way!

Your relationship is a partnership and you get to figure things out together. The example I use here is one where a client wanted to hire a baby-sitter to help with the kids a little bit each week and her husband didn't agree with the place that she was thinking of…. He put a boundary in place.

Now the communication has opened up and she has the opportunity to say, 'Ok, where would you rather me take them instead?"

They get to have the conversation, she gets her needs met (her boundary… I need childcare), and his boundary is adhered to.

Everyone feels good!

Whatever your situation is and whatever you need help with, you deserve to have the support. But you also need to be willing to speak it.

You both brought your kids into the world + chose to be together, so how can you create a life and relationship that feels damn good to you?

I'm teaching you a few steps on this week's episode.

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