In this episode of Healthy Mind Healthy Life, host Sayan sits down with Jacquie Elliott to break down why holiday stress and family dynamics can crank up your inner critic. Fast.
Jacquie reframes “self criticism” as abusive brain chatter. A deeper pattern of emotional self-abuse that fuels low self-worth, comparison and people-pleasing. You’ll learn her ABCs framework to interrupt the spiral, rebuild self-respect and practice self-love in a practical way through awareness, belief and challenge.
About the Guest:
Jacquie Elliott is a certified spiritual and relationship coach, seasoned radio host and motivational speaker. She’s the author of The Silent Bully: A Journey from Abusive Brain Chatter to Self-Love, and teaches simple tools to shift from “tornado head” into boundaries, presence and a healthier inner relationship.
Key Takeaways:
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Name the inner critic for what it is. Jacquie calls it “abusive brain chatter”. Not just negative thoughts but a pattern that bullies, belittles and gaslights you, especially during holiday pressure and family triggers.
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Use the ABCs framework in real time. A is Aware: notice the script and write it down. B is Belief: reconnect to a loving inner source through journaling, meditation, prayer or a grounding ritual. C is Challenge: replace old core beliefs like “I’m not enough” with one sentence that is 10% kinder and more true.
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Watch for “Tornado Head”. That spiral where one mistake becomes a whole identity story. The reset is to return “home” to the present moment and get heart centered before you problem solve.
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Make self love practical. Start with 2 to 3 minutes of meditation. Journal both voices. List your top values and check alignment. Take small actions that build self respect and reduce shame.
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Build momentum with micro wins. Random acts of kindness and gratitude can create a dopamine lift that supports consistency, confidence and healthier boundaries.
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Holiday reminder. You do not need perfect mindset. You need a tool you will actually use when things get loud, tense or triggering.
How Listeners Can Connect With Jacquie:
Website: https://www.healingabc.com/
https://www.jacquieelliottclc.com/
Book: The Silent Bully: A Journey from Abusive Brain Chatter to Self-Love (linked via her website. Also mentioned as available on Amazon in the episode)
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