EP 246: He Ain’t Broke But He Still Needs Fixing When Your High-Value Man Is Actually a Project

Queen, let's talk about the confusion that nobody prepared you for: when your high-value man checks every box society told you mattered, but your nervous system is screaming that something ain't right. You're not crazy, and you're not asking for too much—you're just dealing with an emotional project disguised in designer suits and six-figure success.

In this episode, I'm breaking down why status doesn't equal safety and how to stop carrying the invisible emotional load that's draining your peace. It's time to trust your instincts and reclaim your power.

What You'll Learn

• Discover the five clear signs that your successful man is actually an emotional project in disguise
• Shift your understanding of what "high value" really means beyond bank accounts and status symbols
• Notice how cognitive dissonance shows up when someone looks like a catch but feels like chaos
• Reclaim your self-trust by understanding that asking for your needs wasn't "too much"—it was necessary
• Transform your approach to relationships by recognizing emotional availability as the true flex

Why It Matters

This conversation addresses what so many high-achieving black women experience but rarely discuss—the psychological confusion that leaves you questioning everything about yourself. We've been conditioned to endure instead of express, especially when society celebrates our "good man." Through mindset coaching and understanding neurobiology, I'm here to empower you to stop diminishing yourself and break free from self-abandonment patterns. Your peace isn't negotiable.

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