The Deep-Rooted Marriage: Cultivating Intimacy, Healing, and Delight

2025-04-09

In this episode, I am thrilled to welcome Dr. Steve Call, a clinical psychologist and co-author with Dr. Dan Allender of The Deep Rooted Marriage: Cultivating Intimacy, Healing, and Delight*. We dive into the book's themes, focusing on how past traumas influence present marital conflicts and how to grow in emotional understanding and intimacy. Dr. Call shares his personal marriage journey, emphasizing the importance of awareness and curiosity in relationships. We discuss practical steps for couples to cultivate awareness, the role of play in healing, and ...

In this episode, I am thrilled to welcome Dr. Steve Call, a clinical psychologist and co-author with Dr. Dan Allender of The Deep Rooted Marriage: Cultivating Intimacy, Healing, and Delight*. We dive into the book's themes, focusing on how past traumas influence present marital conflicts and how to grow in emotional understanding and intimacy. Dr. Call shares his personal marriage journey, emphasizing the importance of awareness and curiosity in relationships.

We discuss practical steps for couples to cultivate awareness, the role of play in healing, and strategies for managing triggers. Dr. Call offers hope and resources for couples to nourish their relationships.

To learn more about Dr. Call’s resources and to get the book, visit TheReconnectInstitute.com.

Topics Covered in this Episode:

Discussion of the book "The Deep Rooted Marriage: Cultivating Intimacy, Healing, and Delight.*"
Exploration of how past experiences and traumas influence current marital conflicts.
Importance of cultivating awareness and curiosity in relationships.
The role of intensive counseling formats in addressing deep-rooted issues.
Strategies for couples to develop awareness during conflicts.
The significance of play in fostering connection and healing in marriage.
Addressing triggers and shame in relationships, particularly during recovery.
Practical strategies for emotional regulation and self-care during challenging moments.
The metaphor of soil amendments to illustrate the need for nurturing relationships.
Resources and support for couples seeking to deepen their connection and navigate challenges.