The ADHD Smarter Parenting‘s Podcast
Kids & Family:Parenting
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Figuring out how to give Effective Negative Consequences can be tricky as many parents struggle with implementing all five elements that make a consequence successful.
The goal of a consequence is to teach them what they should have done instead and to encourage them not to repeat the negative behavior.
Consequences are only so successful and should not be a parent's sole focus when it comes to changing behavior. Parents that focus exclusively on consequences will damage their relationship with their child long-term.
In addition to consequences, parents should be looking for ways to acknowledge and increase positive behaviors. Focusing on the good can be hard for so many parents because when our children are misbehaving it’s hard to recognize that they are doing anything right. Or we feel that by rewarding them instead of punishing them, they will not learn their lesson.
Using Effective Positive Rewards in conjunction with Effective Negative Consequences allows for positive and sustainable change as kids tend to be more motivated by positive interactions than negative interactions.
Effective Negative Consequences has its place and should be given when the behavior warrants.
Knowing when to use Effective Negative Consequence and Effective Positive Rewards takes some skill and understanding. If you are struggling to figure when to use Effective Negative Consequences or Effective Positive Rewards, sign-up for coaching within the Smarter Parenting Club. During a Parenting Coaching session, we can discuss your unique situation and come up with individualized answers that fit you and your child.
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For full show notes and transcript visit: https://www.smarterparenting.com/adhd-parenting-podcast/
Ep #94: Improving communication and increasing comprehension: Part 2
Ep #93: Improving communication and increasing comprehension: Part 1
Ep #92: Creating change and increasing confidence: Part 2
Ep #91: Creating change and increasing confidence: Part 1
Ep #90: Dealing with frustrating situations: Part 2
Ep #89: Special episode-Helping your kids navigate what is happening in the world
Ep #88: Dealing with frustrating situations
Ep #87: Understanding what causes tantrums
Ep #86: Why kids act up
Ep #84: How to use Effective Negative Consequences: Part 2
Ep #83: How to use Effective Negative Consequences: Part 1
Ep #82: Reduce frustration with Preventive Teaching: Part 3
Ep #81: Reduce frustration with Preventive Teaching: Part 2
Ep #80: Reduce frustration with Preventive Teaching: Part 1
Ep #79: Learning new behavior through continued practice
Ep #78: Creating a growth mindset in kids using Praise Approximations
Ep #77: How I learned to help my ADHD kid with Eric Bjorklund
Ep #76: Giving Effective Praise
Ep #75: Dealing with angry outbursts using Correcting Behaviors
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