#9: Andrea Mrozek - Why Marriage Still Matters

In this episode, we discuss with Andrea Mrozek her new book on marriage titled 'I... Do? Why Marriage Still Matters.' Andrea, a seasoned journalist and think tank expert, delves into the societal importance of marriage in today's secular, post-Christian society. We explore the strong link between marriage and fertility rates, the ongoing debate between the institutional and soulmate models of marriage, and the nuanced impacts of the sexual revolution on modern relationships. Drawing insights from historical contexts and recent survey data, Andrea emphasizes the need for a broader conversation about marriage, its benefits, and the societal trade-offs at play. Tune in to gain a deeper understanding of why marriage remains a cornerstone for flourishing communities.

00:00 Introduction and Guest Welcome

00:15 Discussing Andrea's Book on Marriage

00:50 Quotes from the Book

01:46 The Importance of Marriage in Society

03:58 Marriage and Fertility Rates

07:05 Cornerstone vs. Capstone View of Marriage

08:50 Sliding vs. Deciding in Relationships

16:11 The Institutional vs. Soulmate Model of Marriage

25:41 Trade-offs in Social Policies

27:53 Misapplying Postures in Personal Relationships

28:52 The Impact of the Sexual Revolution

29:42 The Birth Control Pill and Family Dynamics

30:55 Economic Perspectives on Marriage and Children

33:18 The Pressure of a Successful Marriage

36:25 The Role of Family Structure in Society

42:42 Philosophical Views on Marriage

45:04 The Importance of Stable Families

47:00 A New Message for Marriage

50:34 Concluding Thoughts on Marriage and Society

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