Episode 0013 Dave Lane on What you do at home equips you for ministry; defining what different is; grace and rebuilding; and how to deal with fear

Welcome to Episode 13 of the FOUR12 Canada Podcast.

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We are excited to have Dave Lane as our last guest for season 1. Dave is the Pastor of Youth and Family at Temple Baptist Church in Sarnia. In this episode, we chat about grace-based parenting and how what you do at home equips you for ministry.

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Links from the Podcast

The Fidgets

 Recommended Reading

Grace Based Parenting by Tim Kimmel

So the Next Generation Will Know: Preparing Young Christians for a Challenging World by Sean McDowell & J. Warner Wallace

Lead Your Family Like Jesus: Powerful Parenting Principles from the Creator of Families by Ken Blanchard, Tricia Goyer & Phil Hodges

Rethinking Sexuality: God's Design and Why It Matters by Juli Slattery

Messy Grace: How a Pastor with Gay Parents Learned to Love Others Without Sacrificing Conviction by Caleb Kaltenback

 

PODCAST HIGHLIGHTS

Grace-Based Parenting

• What you do at home is always reflected in how you minister
• Paul calls church leaders to look after their families
• Create Godly kids
• Focus on the heart instead of the behaviour
• Grace helps us maintain the balance between 2 extremes in parenting:
  • Legalism rules without relationship, and leads to rebellion
  • License relationship without rules leads to resentment

"Truth is a clear light that illuminates our children's way through the dark and shadowy corridors of youth."

"Grace is the heart commitment to keep that light shining brightly no matter what."

How to Create an Environment of Grace

1. Freedom to be different: Define what different is; allow them to be different from your preferences; don't get caught up in the externals; focus on the heart; value what they do against scripture
2. Freedom to be vulnerable: Help them find the balance between facts and feelings
3. Freedom to be candid: Candour is honesty dipped in honour; let them be honest in an honourable way
4. Freedom to make mistakes: We all make mistakes; we need to allow our kids to deal with the consequences and learn to make good choices

 What Changes Your Life

• Books you read
• People you meet
• Places you go; experiences

"Reflect truth and be the light no matter what."

What Motivates You to Keep Going Right Now

• God's word: know it, declare it and walk it
• Know God is still in control
• Rely on God

Your Community Right Now

• Is your family and your kids
• Practise grace with them now
• Focus on your family

 What Will Church Look Like

• Deal with the fear
• Rebuild
• Focus on love and grace

 One Thing to Remember!

• Ministry looks so different right now; many of us don't know what to do or how to do it
• Do what you can; let God do what only He can do
• COVID-19 caught us off guard, but it did not take God off guard; planned events are on our calendars, whereas unseen events are on His
• Feeding of the 5000: We need to step out and be faithful; God will always show up
• Take that step! Don't miss out on what God is doing!

 

Thanks for listening!  We hope this episode has equipped you for greater influence through serving and we don’t want you to miss a single episode so if you haven’t done so already, subscribe to the podcast wherever you listen to podcasts. And you can help us reach more people by writing a review for the podcast on the Apple podcast app and other podcast apps that you use. The FOUR12 Canada podcast is a ministry of Faith Baptist Church in Huntsville Ontario. Explore everything FOUR12 Canada at four12.ca. Thanks for spending some time with us. See you next time!

 

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