Strengthen Your Marriage

In our journey through the "Strengthen Your Marriage" series, we began by exploring the foundational truths of marriage as established by God in Genesis. God created marriage to be a union, a reflection of His love and commitment to us. However, the enemy seeks to divide what God has united, as seen in the story of Adam and Eve. This series aims to refocus our understanding of marriage, moving away from cultural redefinitions and towards a God-centered covenant. We examined three approaches to marriage: casual, contractual, and covenantal. The casual approach is driven by fleshly desires, leading to temporary unions that dissolve when conflicts arise. The contractual approach is based on mutual agreements and emotional needs, often resulting in separation when those needs are unmet. In contrast, a covenantal marriage is rooted in a spiritual commitment to God and each other, transcending personal desires and situational agreements. A covenantal marriage is not just about fulfilling personal needs but about aligning our spirits with God's spirit. It is a commitment to live with an eternal mindset, honoring God and each other. This approach requires us to listen to God's voice and lead our families with faith and example. Fathers and husbands are called to be the spiritual leaders of their homes, demonstrating what it means to be a man of God. We also discussed the importance of unconditional commitment in marriage. Unlike contracts, which have exit strategies, a covenantal marriage is forever, with no plan B. This commitment is mirrored in our relationship with God, who calls us to a covenant relationship through the sacrifice of Jesus. Just as the blood of the lamb protected the Israelites, Jesus' sacrifice covers us, allowing us to build marriages on a foundation of righteousness. In conclusion, we are encouraged to choose love, forgiveness, and commitment daily. Our marriages and relationships with God should not be casual or contractual but covenantal, reflecting the eternal love and faithfulness of God.