Who is responsible?

Today, Kris asks some questions about accepting responsibility for our wrongful actions: -
Who is responsible for our spiritual growth? - for our salvation? - for reconciliation with those we've wronged ? - for reconciliation within ourselves? 
Kris provides a "Christian" answer and a secular - Unitarian - answer for our personal journey towards spiritual growth as Unitarians.
And to discover your answer - you'll need to listen to this!