150: He’s a Source of Pain AND a Source of Comfort

After pornography use, a husband becomes a source of pain as well as a source of comfort for his wife. this can be such a confusing place for both people to be.

Sometimes she doesn't want to be around him at all, but other times she needs him close and for him to provide reassurance.

As a man, oftentimes he doesn't know what to say or how to help so he ends up giving space when really what she needs is his support.

In this episode, I share with you specific things that you can do in order to turn the relationship into a place where is felt.

I also share tools for a husband to know how to navigate the ups and downs of conversations and how to support her in the moments she needs it most.

 

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I will work with you for 12 weeks to help you eliminate pornography use and the root cause that started it.

If after the 12 weeks you haven’t fully been able to quit, I’ll work with you 1-1 for free until you do.

Go to stopporn.info for more information about working with me directly.

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Simply go to www.coupleshealing.org and in the course you'll learn some top strategies to find healing from addiction and trauma, rebuild trust, experience freedom, and begin to reconnect with each other in the relationship.

 

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