What She’s Thinking: men’s dating & sex questions answered by women
Society & Culture:Relationships
R (36), S (27), and G (26) answer your questions about dating and sex.
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This episode covers:
- What's a good first date activity? What's one that is boring or overdone?
- What's the best way to get consent? Explicit and direct, or a bit more nuanced? Tell us how you tell us yes.
- What’s a way you like for a man to create connection on a date?
- What are your top 2 languages of love?
- After we match, if you don't respond the first time I send a message, should I send another?
- What kind of aggressiveness do you like in a man, and what kind is scary?
- Rate your sex drive compared to the average woman’s
- How do you like to discuss fantasies that aren't mainstream, or might have sensitivities attached to them?
- How long is your ideal sex session (the in and out portion, not the foreplay)? What is the minimum amount of time that is satisfactory? conversely, how much time before it’s too long?
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15: Frequent travelers: How to tell she's not interested, turn-ons before & during sex, best offline ways to meet, top languages of love
14: Frequent travelers: sending a 2nd message, who pays on first date, dating preferences in 20s vs 30s, men being emotionally present, talk on Instagram vs app
13: best places to meet besides online, turn-ons before sex, turn-ons during sex, opposites attracting, when she follows you Instagram, final things they appreciate men doing
12: how can men help when her work affects libido, how to tell she has a high sex drive, kickstarting her sex drive, first date topics, length of sex, how to help her ask for what she wants
11: Favorite ways for nipples and clit to be touched, do opposites attract, how to ask what she wants during sex, rate your sex drive
10: Teasing/hinting makes sex better, wanting sex more than he does, being emotionally present in sex, dating preferences 20s vs 30s
9: First dates, languages of love, creating connection, how to see if she's not into you
8: Making more than him, how dating online is for you vs men, profile mistakes, appreciating things men do
7: Turnons, talking about sexual desires, "what do you want" vs "may I?", length of ideal sex, etiquette to get back in touch
6: Teasing; Foreplay spots; Saying no thanks to her, and how she'll show she's not interested; Where to meet besides online
5: turn-offs, discussing fantasies with a guy, her sex drive compared to avg woman, how to ask what she likes, kegels
4: Consent, foreplay, turn-ons, aggressiveness, length of ideal session, favorite parts of men's bodies, and more! (Sex Q's Part 1)
3: Should I send a second message? Why she followed you on Instagram... (Dating Q's Part 2)
2: Good first dates, and should I pay? Why she sends short answers (Dating Q's Part 1)
1: Hello and What this podcast is about (trailer)
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