Ep. 83 My Abuse Will Not Define Me; Escaping The Cycle; and America’s Freedom To Live The Fullest Life/Andrae’s American Story

Andrae Griffin was the victim of mental, physical and sexual abuse at the hands of those who should have been her protectors.  Andrae's parents made her life a living hell.  Andrae's only refuge was school.  

Andrae reached out to other adults, but help did not come. Her parents threatened Andrae with her very life if she continued to plead to those outside the family.

Andrae left home as a teenager.  She bought a plane ticket, and made the decision to fend for herself.

Andrae's behavior kept her in a dangerous place.  She lived with strangers, drank alcohol, and was involved in unhealthy relationships.  

Andrae considered herself unworthy of goodness or unconditional love.  It was her future husband, Ray, who patiently waited for Andrae to trust he was there for good.

This is the story of Andrae Griffin.  She is candid about her abuse, poor life choices, and, finally, how the freedoms in America allowed her (and anyone willing to work hard) to beat poverty and abuse; living a life she is proud to pronounce as her own.

Andrae and her husband, Ray, are fierce American patriots, instilling the love of country to their children.  Andrae has supported Ray through his tenure in the Utah Army Reserve, often times raising the children on her own while Ray protects and serves in far off places.  She and Ray are also owners of the Griffin Jiu Jitsu Academy, taking special pride in classes they offer for women's safety.

Andrae is a contributor to the Utah Patriot Camp, teaching children about the constitution and our great American republic.