What if I hate networking?

Episode Description:

In this episode, Claire explores why so many authors hate networking (hint: it’s not because you’re antisocial), how the Enneagram can reveal the hidden gifts you bring to any professional community, and why deep, meaningful connections—not surface-level ones—are the real magic behind sustainable author careers.

Whether you’re a conference avoider, an online lurker, or someone who thinks they’re just bad at making friends, this episode is packed with practical advice, gentle encouragement, and some hard-won insights about what it takes to build a network that actually feeds you.

In this episode, you'll learn:

• Why many authors resist networking—and how to gently shift that mindset

• How your Enneagram type may influence your relationship with connection

• The difference between transactional vs. transformational networks

• Tips for building relationships that don’t feel forced or fake

• What to do if you're socially anxious, neurodivergent, or easily overwhelmed

• Simple strategies to start (or deepen) meaningful author connections

Takeaway Challenge:
Reach out to one person in the writing industry you like but haven’t spoken to in a while. Just say hi. Ask how they’re doing. That’s it. That’s networking.

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Happy Writing!