6: Debunking Porn Myths: Porn Isn’t Cheating

Here are some often used dismissive comments about porn: All men use porn. It doesn't hurt anyone. It has nothing to do with my love for you. It just helps me blow off steam.

Nonsense.

Porn kills love, decimates self-esteems, is escalating and addictive, deprives your family of your attention, and fuels the human trafficking trade. Porn is always, always cheating. When you are seeking intimacy outside a committed relationship, you are depriving your partner of consent. Consent is often the dividing line of whether or not you are sexually abusing your partner.

If porn is so "normal" and "everyone is doing it", why is it done in secret? Why isn't it openly discussed around the dinner table or water cooler? Because, people who use porn know it is wrong and they are ashamed. They realize if their partner knew the extent of what they were consuming, they would most likely lose them. The use of porn is deeply selfish. Let's stop making excuses for this demoralizing and harmful behavior. We have a right to stand up and say, as I have, "Porn does not have any place in my life." Enough!

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