Sometimes, we can try to cover up our past pain with that which we can control-achievement, performance, and productivity. But at some point, those coping mechanisms cannot mask the hurt we are feeling deep inside anymore. What do you do when what you've done to run from your past no longer works to hide what you're truly feeling?
For Dr. Elizabeth (Ellie) Stevens, there came a point when what she did to keep the pain from her childhood sexual abuse at bay, no longer worked. She found that she could no longer hide behind performance and her achievements and instead had to face what was below the surface. It took another string of traumas including a sexual assault and traumatic brain injury to bring up the ache she had been ignoring, but when she did, she found that God invited her towards something new: freedom. Even when her poor decisions heaped shame on top of all she was enduring, she was able to start to experience the depth of God's love in the middle of the mess of emotions she was enduring. Now, as a psychiatrist, trauma survivor, and veteran, Dr. Stevens has taken what she has learned in her own journey to help veterans and first responders in theirs.
In this conversation, Davey talks with Dr. Stevens about how we often use achievement and performance to cope with our past, the power of God shown through our weakness, and how trauma can help us move from conditional to unconditional love.
If you find yourself trying to hide your past pain through achievement and performance and you are ready to experience the freedom God has for you, this episode will encourage you that God wants to release you from that which threatens to hold you back.
Website: www.drelizabethstevens.com
www.advancingwarriors.org
Book: Unshackled: Finding God's Freedom from Trauma
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Episode 279 - Finding Faith and Family through Foster Care with Tori Hope Petersen
Episode 278 - Overcoming Father Wounds with Kia Stephens
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Episode 276 - Finding a Reason to Return with Ericka Andersen
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Episode 273 - When God Seems Gone with Adam Mabry
Episode 272 - The Power of Discipleship with Preston Perry
Episode 271 - Experiencing the Comfort of God after Loss and Trauma with Rachel Faulkner Brown
Episode 270 - Loving Well through the Pain of Addiction with Geoffrey and James Banks
Episode 269 - How the Enneagram can Help in our Healing with Beth and Jeff McCord
Episode 268 - When Mountains Crumble with Danita Jenae
Episode 267 - Finding the Hope of the Gospel in Miscarriage with Eric Schumacher
Episode 266 - Addressing the Spiritual Roots of Depression and Anxiety with Dr. Michelle Bengtson
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