Healing After Rock Bottom: Toxic Relationships, Forgiveness & Learning to Trust God {Part 2 with Christy}

2025-04-19

In Part 2 of Christy’s powerful testimony, Melissa and Christy dive into what happens after the breakthrough moment. Now living sober and walking with Jesus, Christy opens up about the battle to set boundaries, avoid toxic relationships, and walk out her healing—one difficult step at a time. You’ll hear real talk about spiritual attacks, savior complexes, and the painful realities of rebuilding trust with family—especially with children who carry deep wounds. With honesty and humility, Christy reflects on her struggle to stop “rescuing” others and ...

In Part 2 of Christy’s powerful testimony, Melissa and Christy dive into what happens after the breakthrough moment. Now living sober and walking with Jesus, Christy opens up about the battle to set boundaries, avoid toxic relationships, and walk out her healing—one difficult step at a time.

You’ll hear real talk about spiritual attacks, savior complexes, and the painful realities of rebuilding trust with family—especially with children who carry deep wounds. With honesty and humility, Christy reflects on her struggle to stop “rescuing” others and start truly surrendering to God’s direction for her life.

Melissa also offers powerful coaching insights and encouragement for anyone in a season of refining. If you've ever tried to help someone who wasn’t ready, or you're trying to break free from old patterns yourself, this episode will speak straight to your heart.

Key Takeaways:

[00:00] - Living with her ex-husband again and the spiritual confusion that followed
[01:34] - Why emotional and financial dependence kept her stuck
[02:55] - The moment she chose peace over chaos and began trusting God fully
[04:00] - Narcissistic relationships and the desire to fix others
[05:30] - The “savior complex” and how it sneaks into our healing journeys
[08:44] - Red flags, spiritual conviction, and choosing black-and-white boundaries
[12:03] - Why being single in this season is a gift, not a punishment
[13:50] - Discovering the truth about a deceptive relationship and letting go
[16:52] - Pouring from an empty cup and learning to protect her peace
[21:08] - A heart check: speaking from resentment vs. sorrow in parenting
[24:25] - Triggers, forgiveness, and what healing may look like for her daughter
[28:02] - Melissa shares an offer for one-on-one faith-based coaching

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