Season 3:Episode 8 - Healing Through Conflict - Kelli Russell

Episode #8 Show Notes

Hosts: Kimberly Willess, Warren Lamb

Guest: Kelli Russell

 

Summary

In this episode of The Soul Care Podcast, Kimberly and Warren interview Kelli Russell, a leader in Christian conciliation and biblical counseling. They discuss Kelli's journey into this field, the importance of understanding trauma in conflict resolution, and the role of forgiveness in reconciliation. The conversation emphasizes the need for safety, building rapport, and training believers in biblical peacemaking. Kelli shares her vision for Grace Matters, the ministry she leads, and the impact of community education on conflict resolution.

 

Takeaways

• Kelli Russell is a leader in Christian conciliation and biblical counseling.
• Understanding trauma is crucial in conflict resolution.
• Building rapport takes time and is essential for effective reconciliation.
• Safety is paramount when dealing with abuse in reconciliation processes.
• Christian conciliation aims to restore relationships, not just resolve conflicts.
• Training believers in biblical peacemaking is vital for community health.
• Forgiveness does not mean enabling harmful behavior.
• Every reconciliation case is unique and requires a tailored approach.
• The goal of reconciliation is to achieve peace and understanding.
• Love and compassion are key components in resolving conflicts.

 

Relevant Links

Mentioned Resources

• The Peacemaker: A Biblical Guide to Resolving Personal Conflict (Ken Sande)
• Help! I'm in a Conflict (Life-Line Mini-Book) (Ernie Baker)
• Grace Matters (Kelli’s ministry organization)
• RW360: Relational Wisdom 360
• Institute for Christian Conciliation
• Ambassadors of Reconciliation
• Unbound: Growing Ever-freer in Christ (Truth in Love curriculum)
• Forgiveness: It May Not Work the Way You Think It Does (Warren Lamb)

 

Other Links

• Truth in Love Biblical Counseling
• Warren’s Blog

 

Warrenism of the Week: “Peacemaking is an ending of hostilities; pacifying is a pausing of hostilities.”