Surrender and Acceptance Tour™-- How to Keep Going When Your Heart Is Broken

2024-11-22

How do you show up when your heart is broken? I’m inviting you into one of my most personal episodes yet. This isn’t about frameworks or takeaways; it’s about showing up when everything feels heavy. I call it my “Surrender and Acceptance Tour™.” After a challenging election and the heartbreak of ending a 20-year marriage, I’m sharing how I’m navigating grief and finding ways to keep moving forward. Grief and burnout share the same brainwave patterns. That insight hit me hard, reminding me of tools I’ve ...

How do you show up when your heart is broken?

I’m inviting you into one of my most personal episodes yet. This isn’t about frameworks or takeaways; it’s about showing up when everything feels heavy. I call it my “Surrender and Acceptance Tour™.” After a challenging election and the heartbreak of ending a 20-year marriage, I’m sharing how I’m navigating grief and finding ways to keep moving forward.

Grief and burnout share the same brainwave patterns. That insight hit me hard, reminding me of tools I’ve used before—tools that can help us anchor in our values, notice small wins, and spark creativity. These aren’t quick fixes, but they’re steps that light the way when things feel dark.

How do you process emotions when the world feels overwhelming? Can creativity and self-expression be the key to healing? Tune in to explore what it means to surrender without giving up. Maybe this is just what you need to hear right now.

Quotes

“When your heart is broken and you’re sitting in grief, the only thing you need to do is whatever your body says to—whatever you need to do to help move that energy through, because it’s energy that is personal to you. As it filters through your mind and your soul, it’s going to transmute in its own way. But the key is: don’t get stuck wherever you are. Keep it processing.” (11:47 | Dr. Lara Salyer)
“Creativity is truly, I believe, your intuition. Creativity is medicinal because it’s what you feel deep in your heart, sort of like coming out. It's like self-expressive out of your pores. This is why I absolutely love bringing it into everything I do… if you tap into this creative power, you get so good at decisions, emotional boundaries, confidence, self-efficacy, and time management. It’s like everything falls into place—everything falls into place because you’re making decisions from your pilot light that’s shining.” (22:12 | Dr. Lara Salyer)
“Keep love at the center. I know the world is hard, dark, and sad, but I really believe and trust that there’s something we just don’t understand at play. And if we can love ourselves first, it’ll then pour out of us into those around us.” (41:20 | Dr. Lara Salyer)

Links

Take the Archetype Quiz to find your ideal play activity: https://3nb09zv7070.typeform.com/archetype

Catalyst Reclamation: https://rightbrainrescue.com/p/reclamation

Right Brain Rescue book: https://www.amazon.com//dp/B08JCKBWK5/

Connect with Lara:

Website: https://drlarasalyer.com

The Catalyst Way: https://drlarasalyer.com/catalyst

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