Episode 16: Have You Ever Been Called Bossy? You’re Not Alone and You’re Not The Problem

Have you ever been called bossy, cold, or intimidating at work? Or been told you're too quiet to lead? In this episode of In Confidence, we unpack the triple standard women face at work and how it affects how we’re perceived, promoted, and valued. Through personal stories, surprising research, and tactical ways to reframe the narrative, Lisa shares how the Leading superpower can be both your greatest strength and your most misunderstood quality. Learn how to expand the scorecard for success, advocate for yourself in real time, and lead with both clarity and connection.

 

Let’s redefine what leadership really looks like.

 

00:00 Intro

00:43 Defining the Triple Standard

02:58 The Hidden Bias Behind Promotion

03:57 Expanding the Scorecard and Helping Women Embrace and Appreciate Their Superpowers

05:40 How to Respond When You've Been Called Bossy

10:04 Balancing Leadership with Connection

13:46 Final Thoughts: You're Not Bossy, You're Leading

14:57 Outro

15:23 Disclaimer

 

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