Think not tying the knot protects you? Think again!

Unmarried relationships, aka a Committed Intimate Relationship (CIR), come with all sorts of consequences just like a traditional marriage. Community property, finances, parenting plans, all of it. Just because you tie the knot does not mean that what’s yours is yours and theirs is theirs.

Nowadays, more and more, people are opting not to get married. However, they are still opting to live together. Many people opt to have children before marriage or even live together indefinitely with or without having children and never intend to be married. So, what happens in this case? How do you protect yourself, your finances, and ensure that you are prepared for the day nobody wants or plans for—a break-up?

If you live in Washington State and are in a long-term relationship where you are living with your partner, it’s quite possible you are viewed as a CIR. Washington courts recognize CIRs and want to ensure you have equal rights and will likely be treated as a married couple if you ever part ways and have to go in front of the court during your breakup It’s likely that if your relationship ends, your assets and property will be split just like a traditional marriage. The same goes for 401ks, retirement, investments, and so on. It’s all on the table and all your assets are subject to division. Especially the property acquired during the relationship while the couple lives together.

It's important to know if you’re in what Washington law considers a CIR so that you know how to handle your finances and protect yourself just in case things don’t work out long-term.

If are an unmarried couple who have questions, reach out to us at Dellino Law Group in Seattle and Bellevue, Washington. We can help provide legal advice and answer your questions to ensure you are protected in your relationship.